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找工作与找对象有什么相似之处
Let's face it: for most of us, job hunting is a means to an end. Very seldom do you meet anyone who claims to enjoy the process for itself (and when you do, they're generally such wildly extroverted people that they're fairly rare specimens of humanity in the first place).
我们中的大多数人不得不承认，找工作只是为了谋生。很少会有人跟你说他们很享受找工作这个过程。如果真的有人跟你这么说，那么这些人大体上都是非常大胆外向的，而这些人更是凤毛麟角。
In this way, job hunting is a lot like dating – a thing you have to do, in order to get achieve your goal of a dream job or relationship, and not necessarily something you'd do for fun.
所以说，找工作真的很像探底想-你必须去做才能得到梦想中的工作或者一段恋情，并不一定是为了开心才这么做。
That's perfectly OK. In fact, by considering the many ways in which these not-so-fun processes resemble one another, you can figure out ways to maximize the experience to get to the dream-job part that much sooner.
这样完全可以。实际上通过考虑很多条并不有趣又彼此相似的道路之后，你可以找到一条路*化你的经验从而很快的找到梦想的工作。
Here's how job hunting and dating are basically the same thing:
通过阅读以下几点你会发现找工作其实就像找对象：
1. Rejection, rejection, rejection.
1.你总是被拒绝、拒绝再拒绝。
Why do most people dislike job hunting? Because so much of the process involves hearing the words, "thanks, but no thanks" ... or worse yet, sitting by the proverbial phone and getting no feedback at all. It's pretty easy to wind up feeling like a wallflower who didn't get asked to the prom when you've been looking for a job for some time and coming up short.
为什么鲜有人热衷于找工作?因为你面试很多次却只得到一句“谢谢你但是..”或者更糟糕的是，坐在电话旁却杳无音讯。当你找工作一段时间，结果令人失望的时候那种感觉就像一个哀怨的少女不被邀请去毕业舞会。
2. You can't hurry love. No, you just have to wait.
你不能催促爱情快快到来。永远不能，你只能慢慢等。
How long does it take to get a job? The answer, of course, varies, although one formula says that for every $10,000 worth of salary, expect to spend one month job searching. Regardless, even when the economy is red-hot, you probably won't find the job of your dreams right away.As in dating, get ready to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince or princess.
找一份工作需要多久?答案当然是不尽相同的，尽管一则公式推导说一份1万美金月薪的工作都需要找一个月。不管怎样，即使经济炙手可热，你也不一定能很快地找到理想的工作。正如约会中，在遇到你的王子或者公主前你得做好亲吻很多青蛙的准备。
3. Relationships of all kinds are bigger than one person.
所有的关系都不仅仅是一个人的事儿
You can be a swimsuit model with an MBA and a side gig teaching Pilates – in the end, it's less about how awesome you are as a candidate or partner, and more about relationship fit. Think about it this way: if you're a vegetarian, the world's most beautiful and hilarious person won't be a good fit, if he or she is also a professional butcher; if you're an introvert, your dedication and skills won't make you happy in an open office full of Chatty Cathys.
你可以是个拥有MBA学位的泳装模特同时还兼职教授普拉提课程-作为一个求职者或者伴侣，最终更多的是在意你是否合适而不是你有多*。这么说吧，如果你是个素食主义者，即使是世界上最美丽最有趣的人也不一定适合你如果他或者她是个职业屠夫的话。如果你是个性格内向的人，你再有奉献精神和职业技能也不能使你在一个摆满凯西娃娃的开放性办公室感到自在。
4. It's all about who you know.
4.论人际关系的重要性。
Even in this era of Tinder and Match.com, chances are, you know plenty of couples who've met through mutual friends. The reasons are pretty clear: it's easier to feel comfortable – and safe – with a stranger who has been vetted by people you trust.
在这样一个线上交友app泛滥的时代，许多恋人都是通过熟人相知相识，原因十分明显：和一个你信任的人的好友相对会感觉自在许多，也会有安全感。
For similar reasons, at least 60 percent of job seekers find work through networking. Who better to tell you what it's really like to work at a company than someone who's already toiling away in the trenches? And who better to recommend you than someone who's worked with you, or attended the same school or earned the same certifications or learned the same skills?
同理，60%的求职者也会通过网络进行求职。一个公司的好与不好只有这个公司的职员才知道，你是不是有能力只有和你共事，和你有过交集，或与你同校或和你一样有同样技能，得到同样资质认可的人才会了解。
Finally, the Recession may be over, but companies are still moving slowly when it comes to filling positions and signing new hires. Anything you can do to overcome a hiring manager's apprehension is helpful, and there's nothing more persuasive than a recommendation from someone he or she already trusts.
令人头疼的事，如果他所信任的人能推荐合适的人选那将是再大萧条也许已经结束，但公司在招聘环节上仍然举步维艰，对于人事部经理来说招聘是一件好不过。
5. Resilience is more important than nearly any other quality.
5.适应能力是最重要的品质。
Think about the happiest, most successful people you know. What do they have in common? At work and in their personal lives, they bounce back.
When it comes to dating or building your career, the most important thing you can be is resilient. Being able to get up when life knocks you down will keep you from missing opportunities. Plus, resilient people exude confidence, strength, and happiness – attractive traits to hiring managers and everyone else.
想想那些你所知道的最幸福最成功的人。他们有什么共同特征?在工作和私人生活中，他们都能绝地反击。谈及到约会或者构筑职业生涯时，最重要的就是你能有这种适应的能力。当生活将你击垮时能再一次站起来可以使你避免错失良机。而且有适应能力的人浑身都散发出自信，力量和幸福的光芒。这种极具个人魅力的特质会吸引雇主们和其他人的目光。
Finally, being able to regroup, analyze opportunities for change, and move on makes you better at being on your own side, like a good friend or a supportive colleague or partner. In love or in your career, there's nothing more important than that.
最后，如果你具备重新部署的能力，擅于分析变化的事物觉察出机遇并且坚持不懈可以使你成为更好得自己。就像一个好朋友一个支持你的同事或者伴侣。在爱情或者职业生涯，没有比这个更重要的。
一、练习英语听力的方法
1、选材
现在英语听力资料很多，如VOA/BBC/CNN/CRI等等，很多童鞋有选择恐惧症，一直纠结哪个是最适合自己的，听两天VOA，觉得不行，再听几天BBC, 各种资料来回换，最后也是竹篮打水一场空。所以，强烈建议大家不要纠结，不要贪多，根据自己的水平选择适当的材料(关于这个问题的解答，小编不此不赘述);不过如果从BBC/CNN/CRI选，哪个更好呢?小编认为CRI会更好些，原因很简单，毕竟听CRI所需的背景材料基本都与中国关系密切。
2、方法
怎么听?泛听(了解其主题及梗概)——精听(一段一段或一句一句听，将文本写下来)——反复(注意没听懂的地方)——复述-——反思学习(对于其中好的句型，词组摘录下来，认真研究其含义，利用网络搜索权威例句，并学会迁移应用)，整个过程开始可能很痛苦，但是痛并快乐着。。。别为你的挫折感到伤感，坚持生命因挫折而精彩。
3、坚持
三天打鱼两天晒网的状态是*不可取的，好不容易练得有些起色了，由于某些原因断了，这下就前功尽弃了。。。记住，半途而废是永远无法成功的，只有将梦想的翅膀插在心中，并且持之以恒，你才能自由地飞翔。
二、英语听力案例
下面我们以CRI——People In the Know为例，看看一段10分钟左右的片段里，我们能学到什么?
Consumers may most likely bump into China-made products wherever they are, but when it comes to Chinese brands, they may name only a few.
China, a long-time manufacturing center, has been eyeing to bring more added-value to their products by promoting its own brand names.
There are a few success cases so far. Huawei and Alibaba, for example, are now regarded as two new most valuable brands in the latest BrandZ report, an annual world renowned report by Millward Brown, a global company focusing on brands, media and communications.
But these brands are far from enough if China really wants to bring its numerous brands closer to the global consumers, especially those in the West.
Nihao, you are listening to People In the Know， presenting you with insights into the headlines in China, and around the world.
三、英语经典句子
精听过程靠自己啦，文本就不在这里分享了，以下是小编认为本段中需要学习的东西，一起来看有没有你不懂的。(哦，还要告诉你，本节目是木有文本滴，所以不能偷懒啦!)
1. hike up: 提高、增加
2. What does it take for sb. to do …
要成为……需要哪些条件;如何成为……
3. well-established brand: 知名品牌;
long-established brand(time-honored):
老字号
4. home market: 国内市场
5. churn out: 粗制滥造，大批量生产
6. go internationally/global: 走出去;国际化
7. brand awareness/recognition: 品牌认知度
8. establish our foothold in…: 在……站稳脚跟
9. lead the world in…: 在……方面领先世界
10. established markets:成熟市场
11. have a very targeted segment: 市场定位很准
12. look at: 分析
we can look at thisissue from the perspective of…
从……方面分析这个问题。
13. be vastly different from: 与……有天壤之别
14. niche market： 细分的市场;小众的市场
15. be available
Its products are available in 173 countries.
产品畅销173个国家。
The film is available in over 20 languages.
这部电影被翻译成29读种语言。
16. driver: 原因
例：
what’s the main driver behind China’ssuccess?
What’s driven China’s success? 中国成功的原因是什么?
As if long hours at the office weren't draining enough, it turns out your work life could be introducing a host of habits that take a toll on your health. But it's never too late to change course. Repetitive actions do play a big role in your everyday behaviors. Read on to discover some of the mindless workplace habits that may be influencing your health -- and what to do about them.
长时间待办公室似乎还不够累人，事实上，工作会带来许多对你健康不利的习惯。但想改变永远都不嫌晚。重复行为会对你的日常行为产生巨大影响。读下去，看看那些不经意间却会影响你健康的工作习惯，看看有没有对策。
1. Skipping breakfast.
1. 不吃早饭
While the science is somewhat debated, most experts agree it's better to eat breakfast than to forego it entirely. It can be easy to breeze through your morning on only a cup of joe, but research suggests eating breakfast can help you kickstart your metaboli** and help increase your energy so you're not feeling sluggish later on. If that isn't convincing enough, some experts even advocate for eating a doughnut over skipping the meal, though obviously that shouldn't be a recurring choice. If you're looking for some easy morning options, try one of these quick breakfast recipes.
尽管科学上尚有争议，大部分专家认为吃早饭总比一点都不吃要好。早餐只喝一杯咖啡固然也可轻松度过早晨，但专家称吃早饭有助加快新陈代谢、增进体能，上班不觉困顿疲劳。如果还是不能让你信服，专家甚至主张如果不吃早饭就吃个甜甜圈吧，尽管这不是长久之计。如果你希望轻松搞定早饭，就试试简便的早餐食谱。
2. Leaning your face on your hand.
2. 用手撑着脸
Sure, it's comfortable, but touching your face excessively may be an enemy to good skin care or hygiene, because it spreads bacteria and other bugs.
确实，手撑脸很舒服，但过多触碰脸庞不利于呵护肌肤、也不卫生, 因为碰脸会传播细菌和其他小毛小病。
3. Eating a sad desk lunch.
3. 随意打发午餐
Your brain needs a break. Without one, your productivity and your energy levels plummet. Besides, research shows multitasking is inefficient, so you're probably not getting much done by pushing through anyway.
大脑需要休息，不休息的话，你会工作效率会大幅降低，精力骤减。此外，研究表明，多任务低效，若勉强工作，工作成效也低。
4. Slouching in your chair.
4. 窝在座椅里
Bad posture = Bad health? Studies show that when you slouch you may be negatively influencing your mood. Not to mention poor posture, which is frequently associated with staring at technology, puts a strain on your upper body, too, which could lead to neck and shoulder pain.
站没站相、坐没坐相=健康状况差?研究表明，你低头垂肩懒洋洋的坐姿对你的情绪也会有负面影响。更不要说你的姿势了，姿势不佳总和盯着科技产品看有关，引起上身紧张，引发肩颈疼痛。
5. Touching your eye.
5. 触碰眼睛
It may be tempting to swipe off that **udged eyeliner in the middle of your day, but be wary of hand-to-eye contact as it's another way to spread germs. Not only that, you may be damaging some very delicate skin. Rubbing the eyes ... can actually create microscopic tears in the tissue (making the eye area look older faster), break the capillaries in the eyelids (causing little thread-like veins called telangiectasia) or break the capillaries under the eye (intensifying dark circles).
白天过半，你一定很想把花掉的眼线擦掉，但要小心眼手接触，这是另一种传播细菌的方式。不仅如此，你细嫩的肌肤也会受到损害。揉擦眼睛会使眼组织产生极细密的眼泪(加速眼部衰老)、破坏眼睑的毛细血管(产生细小的线状血管，即毛细血管扩张)、还会破坏眼下毛细血管(加深黑眼圈)。
6. Sitting all day.
6. 终日久坐
Many experts claim that "sitting is the new **oking," which isn't such great news if you're chained to a desk for eight hours a day. A sedentary lifestyle can increase your risk for diabetes and heart disease, and it's probably hurting your back. Make it a point to get up and move as often as you can or opt for a standing desk if the opportunity exists. You can also try this yoga move to undo some of the damage that comes with sitting at a desk.
许多专家声称，“久坐是又一种吸烟”，如果你一天拴在桌边达八小时之久，这可不是什么福音。坐着的生活方式会增加糖尿病和心脏病风险，还很有可能伤及背部。要记得起身，尽可能多动，如果有机会，选择一张站立式办公桌。你也可以试试瑜伽动作，解除久坐桌边带来的损害。
7. Petting the office dog and returning to your keyboard.
7. 办公室里抚触小狗后又立马回到键盘前
Pets, including dogs, potentially carry germs that can spread from animals to people, according to the CDC -- but nothing a good scrub won't fix. Just be sure to wash those hands once playtime is over.
根据疾病防治中心的说法，宠物，包括小狗，有可能携带病菌，传染给人类。但彻底擦洗就没事了。记得和宠物逗趣后，一定要洗手。
8. Bringing your phone to the bathroom.
8. 带手机去洗手间
Half of **artphone users ages 18 to 29 admit to bringing their phones with them to the toilet. It may be tempting to, er, multitask, but you're really just inviting germs into your body and back to your desk. In fact, research shows that your phone has more bacteria than that porcelain throne. Seriously, just leave it behind.
有一半年龄在18至29岁的手机用户表示自己去洗手间也带着手机。嗯，也许你控制不了要同时手头处理多件任务，但你也确实给身体招来了细菌，还带到了你的办公桌上。事实上，研究表明，你的手机的细菌要比陶瓷“宝座”来得多。说真的，放下手机吧。
9. Not taking a sick day.
9. 不请病假
The common cold can take a lot out of you, physically and mentally. By not allowing yourself to properly rest, you may be prolonging the sickness. You're also compromising your co-workers' immune systems by exposing them to the virus. It's better for your health, their health and both parties' productivity in the long run.
普通的感冒让你身心俱损。要是你不让自己好好休息，你会拖延病症。这也会侵害你同事的免疫系统，让他们身处病毒环境。从长远来看，请假有益你的健康、你同事的健康，还有双方的工作效益。
10. Crossing your legs.
10. 交叠双腿
It can be easy to cross those legs to avoid playing footsie with your neighbor, but you may want to re-think your sitting stance. Crossing your legs too much may cause back and neck pain and even might elevate your blood pressure. The ideal seated position comes with your feet flat on the floor and your knees and ankles at a 90 degree angle whenever possible.
诚然，交叉双腿可以轻松避免邻座同事间桌下脚碰脚，但你得重新审视你的坐姿。频繁交叉双腿会引发肩颈疼痛甚至会导致血压升高。理想的坐姿是双脚平放在地板，但凡可以，膝盖和脚踝要呈90度。
11. Indulging in free office pizza.
11. 上班期间贪食免费披萨
The Food and Drug Administration recommends that cooked commercial foods should sit out for no more than four hours, as that's the time in which bacteria can grow and multiply. Consumer and homemade meals have an even shorter timeframe of only two hours.
食品药品管理局建议说，市售食物摆放不得超过四小时，因为四小时内细菌会增加、成倍繁殖。消费者和家庭自制的餐饮保质期更短，才两小时。
12. Not unplugging once you get home.
12. 到家仍保持工作状态
Try stashing the phone once you walk through the front door. Mindless scrolling after dinner or checking your email before crawling into bed may seem insignificant, but it may be contributing to mental exhaustion.
试着一进家门就把手机放好。饭后漫不经心地滚屏、睡前查阅邮件看似无足轻重，但会导致精神疲惫。
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